In this interview, we have the privilege of speaking with an inspiring individual who has dedicated herself to empowering women in difficult marriages and helping them find healing, transformation, and purpose. She is the founder of the Warrior Brides Network, a faith-based curriculum program that provides a comprehensive support system for women facing challenges in their marriages. With a deep understanding of the complexities involved, she has developed a powerful framework that addresses the root causes of marital issues and equips women with the tools they need to thrive. Today, we have the opportunity to delve into her journey, the vision behind the Warrior Brides Network, and the impact it has made in the lives of countless women. Please join me in welcoming our esteemed guest, Nike Folagbade.
Can you tell us more about the urgent mandate you received to start Warrior Brides Network? What inspired you to take action?
For seven years, I focused on coaching and impacting singles in the areas of emotional wholeness, personal transformation, and healthy relationships. Marriage counseling always seemed complex and challenging to me, given the issues I had heard about and dealt with.
In 2019, I obtained certification in Family Systems Engineering, which sparked my interest in the family space. However, the Lord began a deep work in my life that led me to specialize in marriage counseling, particularly in helping couples in difficult marriages. He took me on a journey of revelation, showing me the root causes of dark and troubling issues in marriages today, some of which defy psychological intervention. This process of revelation became schooling for me, answering questions that had always troubled me about marriage. The Lord also allowed me to experience marital challenges, which provided me with a firsthand understanding of what people face and how to address it effectively.
Through this schooling process, I gained insights into issues such as sudden hatred in marriage, lack of intimacy, distorted communication, narcissism, breakdown of connection, deep anger and pride, infidelity, interference from in-laws, infertility, family patterns, marital delays, generational marital crises, faulty foundations, rejection, addictions, and marital chaos where a spouse refuses to cooperate or seek therapy. Some of these issues are related to personality and values, but for many marriages, the root causes run much deeper.
Thus, I was inspired to create an online course with a comprehensive curriculum that has helped numerous women in over 13 countries. The focus on women stemmed from the ease of attracting them, given my identity as a woman. As these women elevate their identities and experience healing, they become equipped to address their marriage issues effectively, which also impacts their husbands. We are currently developing a men’s version of the program. This year, God instructed us to take this program to different cities and countries, leading to the tour.
What is the main goal of the Warrior Brides Network curriculum program, and how does it help women in difficult marriages?
Warrior Brides Network is a versatile membership-based community and a faith-based curriculum designed to empower women to experience emotional wholeness, discover their life purposes, elevate their identities, gain the wisdom to transform their marriages (as each marriage has a unique blueprint), and effectively parent their children.
Many women have lost their voices, identities, vision, and self-worth due to difficult marriages. Some have even resorted to suicide or resigned themselves to a painful life of emotional trauma and illness. No one should suffer because of a decision to enter into a marriage covenant.
In Warrior Brides Network, women are guided through the decisions they need to make. For some, it serves as a pathway to the transformation they desire in their marriage. For others, it offers support and guidance to break free from bondage without losing their true selves. WBN provides a holistic program that includes weekly video modules, assessments, small groups, workbooks, resources, prayer support, book reviews, counseling, and group sessions. These components work together to facilitate the transformation women truly need. Many women experience significant breakthroughs from the very first week. We also offer prophetic activation sessions with Minister Jumoke Ayegbusi, which help women transition from darkness to clarity and strength.
How do you plan to build an army for God through the Warrior Brides Network? Can you explain your strategy?
As women join the program, they often realize that they, too, have deep-rooted issues stemming from faulty foundations and childhood trauma. This awareness allows them to focus on their healing and transformation within the program, leading to positive changes in their marriages or, in some cases, guiding them toward different marital decisions, especially in cases of abuse. After completing the program, many women become volunteers, guiding new women in subsequent cohorts, sponsoring women in need, and spreading the word about the program to their families, churches, and communities. This organic growth helps us build an army for God. As we expand into different cities and countries, we have local members who join us, mobilizing people and contributing funds to ensure the success of the program.
What territories do you plan to cover during your tour around Nigeria, Africa, and abroad? Why did you choose those locations?
We have selected major locations where we can easily mobilize people and where we already have representatives. We have already held the Lagos edition of the tour and are currently preparing for the Abuja edition on May 20th. Additionally, we plan to visit Port Harcourt, the United Kingdom, the USA, and other African countries that we are still finalizing, with Ghana and South Africa being potential options.
How do you plan to measure the impact of the Warrior Brides Network on women’s lives and marriages?
We have several key indicators to measure the impact of the Warrior Brides Network:
Personal transformation resulting from the counseling and knowledge they gain
Commitment to healing and emotional stability
Behavioral changes in how they navigate and operate within their marriages
Increased spiritual growth and the discovery of their life purposes
Intentional and strategic parenting decisions
Foundational deliverance that leads to wholeness, liberation, and fulfillment
These indicators help us assess the effectiveness of the program and the positive changes experienced by women.
What are some of the biggest challenges you have faced while starting the Warrior Brides Network, and how did you overcome them?
One major challenge was persuading women that the program was not solely about changing their husbands, but rather about their own growth and transformation. By emphasizing this point, women began to recognize the intentional design of the curriculum for their benefit. Another challenge arose when women expressed concerns about paying for a faith-based program. However, once they enrolled and experienced the program, many apologized for their initial reservations and even felt that the program was underpriced. Some women went on to sponsor others or generously provide financial support, indicating that they were genuinely blessed by the program.
Another challenge we encountered was assisting women who needed the program but couldn’t afford it. To address this, we started offering full or partial scholarships to sponsor women in need during each program batch.
Can you tell us about a specific success story of a woman who has gone through the Warrior Brides Network program and transformed her life and marriage?
We have numerous success stories, but one that particularly humbles me is that of a woman based in the UK. She purchased my book and joined the program during one of the cohorts. During her own batch, she even sponsored five women to join after noticing pleas for sponsorship on Instagram. She messaged me during the program to share that her marriage had been restored, attributing her transformation to the book and program. This woman took personal responsibility for her journey, engaged with the resources, and achieved phenomenal results.
We also have another remarkable story of a woman who experienced separation but found reconciliation immediately after completing the program. We have witnessed countless stories of restoration, healing, deliverance, victory, purpose discovery, and thriving lives. Many of these stories can be found on our website’s testimonials page.
How do you plan to sustain the momentum and growth of the Warrior Brides Network after the tour is over?
Since the program primarily operates online, we will continue promoting it and enrolling more women. We curate testimonials and share them online, showcasing the program’s impact. We also organize webinars to introduce people to the program. Additionally, we host yearly hangouts where our women can gather, network, and share their experiences. These events not only strengthen our existing community but also serve as opportunities for new women to learn about what we do and join the program.
How can women who are interested in joining the Warrior Brides Network get involved? What is the process?
Women who are interested in joining the Warrior Brides Network can visit our website at https://warriorbridesnetwork.com/ . There they will find information about the program and the registration process. The WBN tour, which is a free event, aims to reach out to women and provide them with an introduction to the program. However, the main 12-week online course is a paid program. We open registration for the course two to three times a year, and interested women can find detailed instructions on the website on how to enroll.
What message do you have for women who are struggling in their marriages and are looking for hope and healing?
To all the women who are struggling in their marriages and seeking hope and healing, I want you to know that your life is far deeper and more significant than your current circumstances. It’s possible that you ended up in a difficult marriage due to wrong choices, ignoring red flags, or being deceived by surface-level perfection. Perhaps you find yourself repeating the patterns of your family’s dysfunction. But remember, God is a God of restoration and second chances. He loves you unconditionally and has a great plan for your life. Your marriage does not define or limit your purpose.
Warrior Brides Network is here to raise women who become the Brides of Christ, living lives of purpose, kingdom exploits, and fulfillment as they journey with Him. Whether your marriage works out or not, remember that you were created for more. Your life can still evolve and thrive, no matter where you are right now. Joining the Warrior Brides Network will give you the opportunity to uncover the true causes of your struggles and provide you with the tools and support to navigate through them. Whether you’re still married, considering divorce, or already separated, WBN will address your questions, give you hope, and help you thrive again.
You don’t have to face this journey alone. There is a community of women waiting to embrace and support you. Together, we will discover the healing, restoration, and transformation that God has in store for us. Remember, you are not alone, and there is hope for a brighter future.
